The movie Hitch which stars Will Smith is all about two peoples’ compatibility in a relationship. He helps people to change so that they might be noticed, liked or even loved by their crush. Naturally the movie ends with people falling in love when they are just being their natural selves.
You do not need to change to be noticed, liked or loved by God, instead the opposite. He made you in His image, He sees you, knows you and loves you just as you are. We change because of our relationship with Jesus, not to enter a relationship with him.